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Beedio

How come people who already have property, car, wife and children...

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... still sho frustrated with life?

E.g. the guy who drove his car into the Sentosa Cove sea.

Material assets and relationship goals already achieved still frustrated at what?

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Children don't do well not satki not full set? Car and house not big enough? Took big loan to service 5cs but can't finish? Greed is endless and frustration is ownself created.

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Moar commitments may mean moar stress for the middle / middle low income sandwiched class....

Family men looking happy on the outside, may be having headaches many many inside wor...

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30 minutes ago, Beedio said:

... still sho frustrated with life?

E.g. the guy who drove his car into the Sentosa Cove sea.

Material assets and relationship goals already achieved still frustrated at what?

Not driver skill or drinking problem?

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5 minutes ago, gfedcba said:

Children don't do well not satki not full set? Car and house not big enough? Took big loan to service 5cs but can't finish? Greed is endless and frustration is ownself created.

Lidat nobody can reach happiness riao becum illusory goal.

3 minutes ago, dysentry said:

all playing with debt 

need to pay back one

Makes sense.

3 minutes ago, metalrover said:

Moar commitments may mean moar stress for the middle / middle low income sandwiched class....

Family men looking happy on the outside, may be having headaches many many inside wor...

Unless kena forced by parents to marry, otherwise why create stress for themselves?

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2 minutes ago, XianGe said:

Not driver skill or drinking problem?

In that particular case the driver took drugs. He said he was frustrated because argue with father about putting solar panels at house, very weird explanation.

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1 minute ago, Beedio said:

In that particular case the driver took drugs. He said he was frustrated because argue with father about putting solar panels at house, very weird explanation.

wow eco warrior

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2 minutes ago, Beedio said:

Unless kena forced by parents to marry, otherwise why create stress for themselves?

Family financial problems aside, some might be positive about marriage initially, after a while end up in regrets. Like some says, see the ghost then will scat of the dark...

For some, the woman u married 20 yrs ago, now may no longer be of the same character and mindset as before. The young sweet girl now turned into a naggy hot tempered confrontational old hag cheekon. How to tahan? 

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6 minutes ago, metalrover said:

Family financial problems aside, some might be positive about marriage initially, after a while end up in regrets. Like some says, see the ghost then will scat of the dark...

For some, the woman u married 20 yrs ago, now may no longer be of the same character and mindset as before. The young sweet girl now turned into a naggy hot tempered confrontational old hag cheekon. How to tahan? 

That's a good point maybe happiness is not a stage-dependent goal but a state of mind in a particular situation.

Society must convince individuals that happiness comes after X dollars of assets, branded car, marriage children etc. But real happiness could be as easily reached as a quiet place to eat or a cool place to sit enjoy the wind.

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4 minutes ago, Beedio said:

That's a good point maybe happiness is not a stage-dependent goal but a state of mind in a particular situation.

Society must convince individuals that happiness comes after X dollars of assets, branded car, marriage children etc. But real happiness could be as easily reached as a quiet place to eat or a cool place to sit enjoy the wind.

Some ppl with all the above as in the thread title, says they feel like they are not much different from a atm to their commitments.

That makes me think staying single and lonely may not be all that bad after all..

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8 minutes ago, metalrover said:

Some ppl with all the above as in the thread title, says they feel like they are not much different from a atm to their commitments.

That makes me think staying single and lonely may not be all that bad after all..

Maybe most people are OK with married life, not bery happy also not bery miserable, only a few siaolang cases make the news.

For moi, alone ish a joy notch lonely, moi cannot relate to normal human beings only fweels anger and frustration, maybe previous life ish alien.

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May be it is greed. May be they do not know what they want in life. May be they were lazy and all these were handed down to them or paid for by someone else. 

 

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With more power, comes more responsibility...

With more money, comes more stress...

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Single men - Must plan for yourself, work smart, strive hard so have no stress when you are old.

Married men - Must plan for the wife & kids, if possible sacrifice your dreams, stay healthy, do more exercise to relief stress.

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